Without thinking about it, you engage in small talk almost every day.Whether you’re ordering lunch at a deli or you’re the plus-one at a party, you’re bound to have a moment when you’re face to face with someone.Some people navigate these situations seemingly without problems; others…not so much.

With Kick-Ass Small Talk, you’ll learn how to communicate effectively—and painlessly! While small talk might seem trivial or uncomfortable, it’s actually a necessary skill for any adult. Not only does it help you connect to others, but it also helps you build confidence in social situations, which in turn improves your overall well-being. Inside, you’ll find:

A checklist to help identify what type of communicator you are

The four basic steps of small talk

When not to start a conversation—and how to end one

How to talk to family at any gathering (without anyone storming out)

How to build a community when you’re in new surroundings

How to ask appropriate questions on a first date and a job interview

With writing prompts, conversation challenges, and original exercises—including a small talk scavenger hunt!—this book will have you faking it till you make it, one conversation at a time.