Polysecure: Attachment, Trauma and Consensual Non-monogamy by Jessica Fern is a groundbreaking, trauma‑informed guide for anyone seeking secure, loving attachments across multiple partnerships. If you’ve ever wondered how attachment theory — a cornerstone of modern psychology — can work in a non‑monogamous world, this book shows you exactly how. Fern reframes intimacy for polyamorous or ethically non‑monogamous relationships, offering practical, evidence‑based tools to cultivate safety, trust, and resilience with more than one partner. This is not a theoretical treatise; it’s a hands‑on manual for real life, written in a warm, accessible voice that speaks to both individuals and couples navigating the complexities of multiple loving relationships. You’ll discover six concrete strategies designed to move you toward secure attachments, even when past traumas or culturally conditioned expectations have made intimacy feel risky. If you’re charting a path toward more authentic connection, Polysecure is the compass you’ve been looking for.

What sets Polysecure apart is its innovative application of attachment theory to consensual non‑monogamy. Jessica Fern expands the traditional model with a nested framework that considers how trauma and relational dynamics unfold across multiple partners. The book blends psychotherapeutic insight with real‑world scenarios, helping readers translate abstract ideas into tangible changes in communication, boundaries, and emotional safety. Fern’s approach is grounded in empathy and practicality, offering readers a clear map for assessing attachment patterns, recognizing triggers, and building healthier responses in each relationship. By centering consent, responsiveness, and personal agency, Polysecure invites readers to rethink what “secure” looks like in a world where love isn’t limited to one partnership, and to cultivate attachments that are robust enough to withstand jealousy, uncertainty, and upheaval.

Who this book is for: This book is essential for anyone in or entering a consensual non‑monogamous arrangement — whether you’re single, dating, in a triad, or in a long‑term polyamorous partnership. It’s equally valuable for partners seeking to understand their own attachment styles, for therapists and coaches who support non‑monogamous clients, and for readers who want to reduce fear and increase emotional safety across multiple intimate relationships. If you’re curious about how to sustain authentic, secure love while navigating multiple connections, or you’re on a healing journey from past relational trauma, Polysecure offers a compassionate, actionable framework to guide your path.

Key Benefits

• Translate attachment theory into practical, everyday strategies for polyamorous relationships.
• Identify your own attachment patterns and learn how to respond rather than react in triggers around multiple partners.
• Develop healthier communication, boundary setting, and consent practices that respect both autonomy and connection.
• Build a trauma‑informed approach to intimacy that validates past wounds while opening space for secure, present‑moment bonding.
• Gain a clear, compassionate roadmap for nurturing trust and safety across all your romantic ties, reducing jealousy and uncertainty.

Product Details
Title: Polysecure: Attachment, Trauma and Consensual Non-monogamy
Author: Jessica Fern
Condition: BRAND NEW
Format: Paperback
ISBN: 9781914484957

About the Author
Jessica Fern is a psychotherapist, public speaker, and trauma and relationship expert. In her international private practice, she works with individuals, couples, and people in multiple‑partner relationships who are ready to move beyond reactive patterns, cultural conditioning, insecure attachment styles, and past traumas. Fern’s work blends clinical insight with a warm, human approach that invites readers to explore new possibilities in life and love. Her expertise in attachment and trauma informs a practical framework for healthier relationships, making her writings trusted resources for both individuals and professionals seeking actionable guidance in the realm of non‑monogamy.

Why You’ll Love This Book
Polysecure offers more than a theoretical case for secure attachment in non‑monogamy; it provides a proven mindset and process you can apply from day one. The nested attachment model helps you see how experiences in one relationship ripple into others, so you can intervene early, repair effectively, and prevent cycles of insecurity. The tone is compassionate, non‑judgmental, and refreshingly concrete, with adaptable strategies that fit diverse relationship structures. If you’re building a polyamorous life or supporting clients through complex dating landscapes, this book equips you with clarity, empathy, and practical tools to cultivate secure, fulfilling connections. Owning Polysecure is an investment in healthier intimacy, lasting trust, and a more confident, communicating you.